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Assalamulaikum wrt wbt...

1. Today topic is ...

2. Body language is one of the most thing people sometimes forget to look at ...

3. And today, I saw someone doing it in front of me... this is one gesture that prominent male and female around  us... the level of confidence that the person show is so high that I felt that I should not say anything until I really understand the situation.

4. Next what should I do ... 

5. As many of you know me, I will always look at the bad side of people. The reasons being is that when I know the person bad side, I will make sure I don't go there. And today, when I saw the gesture I realized  that people are actually afraid of what people think of them.

6. I really like to study people. Most of all because I want to tell you that - "we are the same"...

7. We will always be afraid to what people think about us. Expecially, when all the eyes is on us. The expectation is so high, that makes us so stress out. We think that we can control all the thing around us, at the end...

8. What is my advice...be calm. Go with the flow. The advice that I always remember is from my ex-DCM - he told me that, "it is good to planned but if we have planned 100% but when time come, and we fail to ... then it is no used..."

9. I hope this advice will help people in their future endurance. In Sya Allah...